THE seductress
the journey onwards
This page provides you with further resources and practices you can do to continue deepening your connection to this month’s archetype.
How much more can you drop into your divine feminine sensuality?
Nervous system regulation
In order for our divine feminine essence to truly open and be receptive to the beauty and abundance that surrounds us, we need to first create a foundation of inner stability. The easiest way to do that is to incorporate nervous system regulation practices in your daily routine!
Breathwork is one of the fastest and most accessible ways to do this. Here is one example of a technique you can use, and it’s only 10 minutes https://youtu.be/tybOi4hjZFQ
Do this every morning and/or evening, or whenever you feel slightly anxious.
There are many forms of nervous system regulation though, such as EFT tapping, or somatic therapies like acupuncture. Choose whatever suits you best (you can also choose multiple techniques if you want) and use it frequently.
be receptive
Notice where you are cutting yourself off from receiving life’s natural abundance. Even if it’s as simple as noticing a flower and really allowing yourself to feel its beauty. We can go about our days in such a hurry, giving our energy to everything that requires our attentions, that it is easy to neglect the act of receiving.
I invite you to be mindful throughout your days moving forward, of all the little (and big) things that are worth truly receiving; with all your senses! Celebrate life, fall in love with the things you would usually overlook as banal. The universe expands whatever we focus on, so practice receiving its beauty, and it will only give you more.
Connect to your sacred sexuality
You don’t need a partner for this! You sexuality is first and foremost YOURS, and it is a sacred energy; one that can be harnessed to increase your confidence, creativity, and can also be used for manifestation.
There are many pathways you can go down to explore this part of yourself. One way is through the art of Tantra. Here is a beautiful book that you might enjoy: https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Tantric-Sex-Unique-Fulfillment/dp/1903816378
Practice mirror work
Practice building intimacy with yourself through mirror work. To be honest, I don’t believe there is a wrong or a right way to do mirror work. At its core, this practice is about truly seeing yourself in both your light and your shadow and learning to love all of you.
It can be uncomfortable at first, to gaze at yourself in front of the mirror! But slowly it won’t be so difficult to spend more time there, and you can start introducing powerful positive affirmations; which you can write on post-it notes and stick to the mirror, or you can speak them out loud to yourself.
I have taken this course before, and I highly recommend it if mirror work is something you want to invest more time and energy into https://www.sistershanti.com/mirror-advanced#devotion
connect with your desires
Take some time to think about what you want. It may sound easy, but we often spend more time thinking about what other people want instead.
Meditate, journal, or have a conversation with a loved one about your desires. Try to access the parts of you that may feel unworthy of these desires? What are these parts trying to protect you from by being in resistance to these desires?
Flip the narrative and integrate the polarised parts of you. You are worthy of all that you desire!
Stay devoted to yourself through the Seductress practices and you will see the true shifts this Archetype can provide in your life!
xx Lucia Dami
